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What Is VIP and How Does It Work?
By Angela S. Tillotson
Volunteers
in Parole, Inc. is a non-profit organization established
in 1972 that matches attorney volunteers with men and women on
parole and helps parolees successfully complete their parole
through one-on-one mentorship and guidance. By receiving an extra
level of personal support, VIP parolees become self-reliant and
productive members of society. Through the inspiration and guidance
of mentors, the chances of recidivism are significantly diminished.
How
are matches made? Most parolee applicants are referred by either
their parole agents or counselors at recovery. Each applicant
fills out an application and go through an extensive interview
with the VIP program director in which the parolee discusses
his or her conviction history, substance abuse issues, family
life, employment, education, goals, obstacles, and social
interactions.
The VIP program director reviews the applicant's field file
with the parole agent and interviews the agent to determine
suitability
for the program. No parolee is ever admitted into the VIP
program without his or her agent's approval.
VIP
does not accept applicants with serious mental disorders or
anyone who is believed to pose a threat to the safety
of VIP participants. Whatever their commitment offenses,
all of our
potential mentees are taking steps to make changes for
the better.
If
the VIP program director believes that a particular attorney
would be a good match for an applicant, the potential
mentor
is provided information about the parolee, including,
but not limited to: commitment offenses, parole progress, obstacles,
goals, substance abuse issues, any special conditions
of
parole
that may have an impact on the mentee's participation
in the program, and the name and telephone number of the parolee's
parole
agent.
If
the potential mentor agrees to participate, the VIP program
director talks to the parolee about his or her
possible match.
The information that the program director provides
to the parolee is very limited and focuses on such obvious
matters
as shared
interests and hobbies. We do not give out the mentor's
contact information. In fact, VIP discourages mentors
from giving
match partners a home phone number and address unless
they are fully
comfortable with the idea. Some mentoring relationships
have thrived on "at-home" activities such as cooking together
or gatherings that bring together the families of the mentor
and the parolee. In other cases, highly successful mentors have
chosen to keep their volunteer service separate from their family
life.
If
the potential mentor and mentee agree to meet, a first meeting
generally occurs at lunchtime or over
coffee
and the program
director attends to make introductions less awkward.
If the first meeting goes well and both the attorney
volunteer
and
the parolee
volunteer show interest in continuing, a second meeting
is scheduled without the program director. After
the second meeting, if both
parties are still interested in pursuing a match,
the match becomes "official."
The
friendship develops at a pace that is comfortable for the match
partners. They may meet as frequently
or as little
as they
wish, with telephone contact between face-to-face
meetings. The average time spent for a match is
four to six hours
per month,
but there are no set maximums or minimums.
The
program director will keep in contact with both mentor and
mentee to track the progress of
the match
and work
with the match
partners if concerns arise. Once a month, mentors
are contacted by either email or telephone to
collect the
number of hours
spent on behalf of the match. There is no paperwork
to fill out. We
want this to be a fun and rewarding experience,
not another "job." The
program is completely voluntary for all parties involved. A match
can be terminated at anytime that either a mentor or mentee wishes
for any reason.
There
are only two rules to the VIP program. First, attorney volunteers
cannot provide legal
representation
to their
own mentees. Second, attorney volunteers cannot
loan money to
mentees. VIP
is dedicated to encouraging friendship and
positive support to individuals turning their lives around;
we are not
trying to
provide free legal advice.
The
strength of VIP mentoring comes from the emotional change that
can occur in the relationship.
The
mentor, a respected
member of the community, in effect, says
to the parolee: "Yes,
I know you just got out of prison. I know what you did. But here
is a clean piece of paper. You now can put your past behind you
and write your future on this blank sheet. I accept you, and
I'll help you."
That
simple act of acceptance is a powerful motivator. Mentees frequently
tell us that
their mentor
is the first person
in their lives who has ever truly believed
in them.
Mentorship
has a phenomenally positive effect on not only the lives of
the mentees,
but
touches mentors as well.
It is a very
rewarding and moving experience to witness
someone overcome his or her fears and
succeed in achieving
goals and aspirations
to
be present, as one mentor explained,
when "miracles happen."
Volunteers
In Parole is always seeking new mentors. If you would like
to learn
more
about becoming
a mentor, please contact VIP
Program Director Angela Tillotson,
at 916-324-4141, ext.
259, or by e-mail at vipsacramento@earthlink.net. |